Email guide

Email Too Passive

Passive email wording makes the reader do more work than they should.

The fix is usually simple: make the ask clearer, keep the tone polite, and remove hedging that weakens the point.

Quick answer

Use a direct ask

The reader should see the next step without guessing what you want.

Keep the tone polite

Direct does not need to sound harsh or demanding.

Remove hedging

Phrases like maybe, just wondering, or sort of can weaken the point.

What passive email wording looks like

“Just checking in...”
“Whenever you get a chance...”
“I was wondering if maybe...”
“No rush, but I thought I’d follow up...”

Weak vs better

Weak

Just wanted to check in and see if you maybe had a chance to look at the thing I sent earlier.

Better

Following up on the idea I sent earlier. If it would help, I can send a shorter version with the key points only.

Common passive email problems

Too many softeners that blur the request.
A tone that sounds uncertain instead of useful.
A follow-up that asks for permission before stating the point.
A message that sounds polite but not clear enough.

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